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The Pros and Cons of Vitamin Supplements

March 12, 2013 6:09 pm / Leave a Comment / Guest Author

By: Jennifer Woods

Maintaining a healthy lifestyle means getting a good nutritional balance of the vitamins and minerals that the body needs to thrive. Often this can be done through a varied, sensible diet but for people not eating particularly well, those with certain medical conditions or those who want a little extra help in bulking up or losing weight supplements may be the way to give your body the nutrients that its missing. Because of their numerous health benefits, convenience and availability (most supplements can be bought over the counter without the approval of a healthcare provider) there was a reported 7.5% growth in nutritional supplements in 2009.

But despite their potential benefits, there are some practical and medical downsides of vitamin supplements too. People should never take any form of medication without fully understanding what it is for, how to take it correctly and knowing whether or not they actually need it. This is why it is important to consult a trained healthcare provider before taking supplements – although you may think you are doing your body a favour it might actually have the opposite effect. Here are some pros and cons to adding supplements to your diet.

(-) Excessive and unnecessary doses

People often don’t realise the specific amounts of vitamins and minerals within the foods they are consuming and may consequently use supplements to boost their nutritional intake unnecessarily. Taking excessive doses of certain vitamins can be dangerous and cause toxicities within the body’s organs and tissues – particularly the liver as it struggles to break down high amounts of various vitamins within the body. In a study carried out by Gustavo Castano, results indicated that a high intake of vitamin A can lead to liver failure and potential death.

Protein shakes are a popular supplement with athletes and body builders who want to bulk up and increase their muscle mass. But bearing in mind that the recommended daily allowance of protein is only 56g in men and that 3oz of meat sometimes containing 20g of protein, it can be easy to overdo it. The excess calories can cause athletes to actually gain fat rather than muscle. Understanding the nutritional value of the meals that you are eating is a good way to ascertain whether or not you need to add supplements to your diet at all.

(+) Beneficial for those with special diets

Some people have allergies to certain foods such as dairy products or may make the lifestyle choice to become a vegetarian. Things like this may make them deficient in certain vitamins and minerals and this is where taking supplements can be a great help. For example many vegetarians are often lacking in the vitamin B-12 which is found in meat. Inadequate amounts of this vitamin can lead to pernicious anemia so it is important to keep levels high even if you can’t or don’t want to eat the foods associated with it. Keeping levels of vitamin A, C and E high also means that you will be more protected against cancer and heart disease.

(-) Cost

Because they usually need to be taken daily, maintaining a vitamin supplement ‘diet’ can become expensive. Although the more basic capsule form of multi vitamins can be purchased for as little as $2, the more specialized, high dose forms of vitamin supplements can cost a lot more. Their value for money is somewhat questioned by a British newspaper suggesting that 75% of the vitamin C in supplements is lost in urine as the kidneys simply flush it from the bloodstream.

With protein shakes costing up to $20 for a premade carton and $50 for a DIY tub of powder, it can certainly be an expensive way to stay healthy.

It’s not just the intial outlay for your supplements either. Another area where you may find yourself out of pocket if you are taking PRESCRIBED supplements is when purchasing health insurance. According to one report, insurance companies are now able to look at a patients perscription history and determine from this what sort of ailments or ongoing conditions they may have. Many of us presume our medical history is between us and our doctors. But insurance companies have the rights to this information through numerous loopholes that you have to adhere to before purchasing health insurance. Therefore if you have an ongoing health problem or deficiency that means you need to take regular supplements, don’t be surprised if your health insurers know about it then hike up your premiums accordingly.

(+) Convenience

In today’s hectic, high paced culture, many of us struggle to find the time to cook a healthy, nutritious meal. Vitamin supplements are a good way of getting what we need quickly and with no stress. They are also great for kids who need essential vitamins and minerals to grow properly but may be fussy eaters. The convenience of protein shakes is also great for athletes who are advised to take a protein hit directly after a workout in order to instantly repair and replenish the muscles and stabilise blood sugar levels. A premade shake is easy to carry around and is absorbed by the body more quickly than a meal.

They are also easy to get hold of with many health stores and supermarkets selling them over the counter as well as online.

(-) May interfere with medication

Studies suggest that vitamin supplements may interfere with prescribed medicines for certain medical conditions and disorders as they cause medications to be metabolised at a different rate. One prime example of this is taking a vitamin D supplement alongside Atorvastain – a drug used for controlling high cholesterol. This is one of the reasons why consulting a healthcare provider before taking supplements is so important.

(+) Different forms

Adding supplements to your diet is easy as they come in all different forms. The most well known is pill or capsule form but some people struggle to swallow these and can therefore try the teas, concentrated liquids, powders or even chewable wafers. Different forms may be absorbed by the body at different rates. For example throat lozenges are thought to take longer while pills are absorbed more quickly.

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The Importance of Women’s Friendships

February 6, 2013 1:18 pm / Leave a Comment / Gail-Elaine Tinker, M.S

When I hear women say that they don’t have women friends, they don’t like women, and they simply find men to be better friends it is a ‘red flag’ to that women’s self-esteem. It is a woman who looks in the mirror and doesn’t like what she sees. After all, in a sense, this is what the purpose of friendship is; aspects of yourself kaleidoscopically reflected in your posse of friends. What? No friends at all. That says just as much, even louder.

In friendship, we hold ourselves accountable to one another in ways we just do not have when we’re merely interacting with someone on a casual basis. We’re uniquely invested in overcoming problems, making things work. This is due to the mutuality, the intimacy, and the investment of friendship.

There are many current articles which purport research that healthy female friendship makes women healthier, happier, less stressed, live longer, and even feel more beautiful. Scientists agree that stress causes chemical changes in the brain, and these changes can influence the state of our health. Therefore, the lack of a social support system, as in your circle of girlfriends, has similar health implications as being obese or being a smoker. Stress can lead to a number of physical and emotional issues, so combating it before it becomes chronic is a no-brainer.

As an adult, it’s not easy to make and keep friends. We don’t have the time we had as a child or teen to just be and ‘hang out’ with our friends. We tend to have responsibilities which fill our every waking moment. We’re busy taking care of our families, our mates, our jobs, our homes and gardens, our pets and plans for the future. It is very easy to see where female friendships, and actively making time for those friends, might easily disappear from our schedules, and eventually from our lives.

If you have no friends or are just starting out, you might want to consider a therapist or a life coach to assist you as these tasks will feel daunting. But if you’ve just gotten busy, relocated, and have good friend-making skills, these tips will guide you in adult female friend making skills.

Like attracts like.

If you want to find other people who are looking for friends, you have to be open to meeting them. Practice striking up conversations with people you know but are not close with. Talk about things you have in common, like your kids, and then move the conversation to a more personal place and talk about yourself. Ask questions to discover what you have in common and see if there’s a mutual need/interest in forming a friendship. You don’t want to be a reporter and only ask questions. Take the risk to reveal things about yourself; after all, real intimacy is a give and take.

You’re most likely to find friends in social settings that are interesting to you. While you may enjoy working the booth at your kid’s soccer game, it’s not the same as going to an event where people are discussing issues you love. Try library, church, coffeehouse, gym bulletin board as well as www.meetup.com to find local ideas, and if you don’t find one you like, consider creating your own. You might be surprised to find out how many people are interested in the same book you’re reading or your favorite hobby.

You get out of life what you put into it, and friendships are no different. Once you find people you are interested in, try reaching out a few times. People can be shy, distracted and may mistake your overture as simple kindness. Also, you never know when someone’s having a bad day. By reaching out a second or third time, you may find they’re more interested in connecting and that they appreciate your efforts to get to know them.

Consider alternative resources like Facebook and Twitter. I know this may sound a little counterintuitive because we’re talking about face-to-face friendships, but social sites are excellent places to practice. I’ve met several people on Twitter with whom I’d be tied at the hip if we lived in the same city.

Revive friendships that may have been placed on the back burner. Scroll through your e-mail, Facebook or even your high school yearbook to find people you’ve lost touch with. With the invention of social media, most of us have found our long-lost sixth-grade buddies by now. Once you connect, take the extra step to invite them out for coffee/lunch. You can also host a play date and invite their kids to come along. Often kids can act as the easy topic of conversation to help you connect and explore rekindling your friendship.

Once you have sparked a meaningful connection with a woman like yourself it is time to develop the foundation of the relationship based on mutual respect and caring. Let me suggest a few ideas:

1. Define it -in a ‘non-intense’ way, tell your friend, ‘you hope this develops to a long lasting friendship’ so she doesn’t think you are just super nice but still acts casual
2. Make time for her – there is a way to let her know she is a priority in your life, but also have your space
3. Be the friend you want to have – show up, on time, don’t take advantage, respect limits
4. Settle disagreements- agree to disagree, apologize, make amends, put yourself in her shoes, let the small stuff go
5. Let the Friendship Go- if there is abuse, gossip, you feel trapped, has unacceptable behaviors, but be honest and clear that it is ending.

In my life, friendships with women have been and are immensely valuable they ‘ground me’ to my life experiences in a profound way. My female friends have seen me through thick and thin. I measure my earthly wealth by my female friends and I encourage you to do the same.
Gail-Elaine Tinker, M.S. is a psychotherapist in general private practice in the Lehigh Valley, PA specializing in grief, chronic pain, trauma, and adult special needs. You can learn more about her work at tinkerpsychotherapy.com or contact her directly at 610-216-4319.

Gail-Elaine Tinker, M.S., RM, Psychotherapist
3005 Brodhead Road #260
Bethlehem, PA 18020

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Resolve to Spend More Time with Friends and Family in 2013

January 2, 2013 8:56 pm / Leave a Comment / Alicia Tamayo

(PCM) The usual resolutions we tend to make year after year – lose weight, save money, get a new job – are great resolutions if we can actually stick to them past February, but the fact is, less than 10 percent of us will be successful. So, why not try something a little different this year: Resolve to spend more time with friends and loved ones in the new year! Studies show that friendships make aging more enjoyable, lessen grief, and provide encouragement to help you reach personal goals.

Here are just a few of the reported health benefits of having a few good friends:

Socially engaged adults age more successfully. Women over age 60 who visit with friends and family throughout the week are happier as they age.

Being social helps boost your immune system. Having friends and being social leads to more positive emotions, which in turn boosts the body’s immune system and reduces stress.

Friends can help you achieve your weight and fitness goals with encouragement and support. But they can also do the opposite if they are negative or not quick to offer encouragement or advice. Choose your friends wisely.

Happiness is contagious! A study of 4,739 adults who participated in the Framingham Heart Study between 1983 and 2003 showed that people tend to cluster into happy or unhappy groups. Happiness spreads both to those inside the social group, and to their contacts as well.

Friends help you cope. People who suffer some sort of loss have a better time coping with their grief when they feel a level of social support from friends and loved ones. Those who feel alone during hard times have a tougher time dealing.

Studies show that it can be just as rewarding to provide others with the benefits of friendship, as well. So this year, make it a point to stay in touch with loved ones, make new friends, and be a good friend to those you already have!

Reference: Everyday Health

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My Christmas Journey, December 24, 2012

December 24, 2012 11:31 am / Leave a Comment / Mike Roberto

Last night I lit all four of the Advent Candles as well as the thick center red candle.  Those five candles burned brightly and lit up the whole room.  There was something about the small flames that held the power to give so much light that I did not want to put them out and go to bed.  I could have sat there for hours just watching the flames dance and glow.  Eventually I got up and blew the flames out and plunged the room into darkness.  I was disappointed to bring the room back into electric light It was almost as if magic had gone away.

 

I have said before that there seems to be more power in the lights of Christmas than there is any other time of the year.  They glow with a special radiance.  Maybe it’s because it is the shortest days of the year and we need the light more or maybe it’s our hearts needing to be comforted, needing to always know that no matter what, and no matter how hard the battle, light will always conquer darkness.

 

Jesus came into the world to bring light.  John says that the darkness of the world never understood the light and it still doesn’t.  People who have hardened their hearts to the message of Christmas never see the good that it is, though they often see the good they can take from it.  It’s sad, but the one thing we know is that no matter how hard the darkness tries, it can never ever end the light.  The light that is Jesus will shine throughout eternity.

 

We have spent the last twenty four day together.  We walked through Christmas Carols and stories and characters.  We looked at all sides of Christmas and now the question is are we different than when we started?

 

I can only answer for myself and say yes I am.  I was reminded of these writings over and over again in the last few weeks.  When I felt depression coming on I knew I could fight it because of Jesus coming.  When disappointment came I knew God was in control and I could trust Him.  And when I had happy experiences I knew God was with me celebrating.  My accomplishments and failures all had a deeper meaning as I reached out to God and remembered what Christmas really is.

 

Today of all days take a Linus Moment.  Open your Bibles or go on line and read Luke Chapter two.  Remember today we celebrate a Birthday.  Prepare the celebration with delight and wonder.  Have the eyes of a child at all times in the next forty eight hours.  Laugh and sing and talk and share, and show kindness to as many people as possible.  If you’re alone this Christmas, light a candle and stare at the frame and invite Jesus to be with you.  Celebrate his birthday with just you and him.  Allow yourself the great joy, that even in your loneliness, and I know how that feels, Jesus is with you and will always be.  We just have to ask.

 

I hope that each of you has a mighty Christmas.  I hope that each you find great joy and peace.  I hope, for those that are hurting, that you feel God comforting your hearts and renewing your hope.  Have a blessed Christmas Day!

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My Christmas Journey, December 21, 2012

December 21, 2012 2:04 pm / Leave a Comment / Mike Roberto

Did you ever have a dry day, a day that just doesn’t seem to have much purpose, and that you are just treading water? You’re just not moving forward or backward? Well welcome to my day today.

As I wrote the above paragraph I had a thought hit me. There were three characters in the Christmas Story that has at least one dry day. Who were these three characters? Matthew calls them wisemen from the east.

There are many traditions telling who and what these “wisemen” were. Magi, which can also be deciphered as Eastern Scientists, is one. Kings is another. There is rumor that says each was from a different race of people, Caucasian, Asian and black. Tradition also says that their names were Caspar, Melchior and Balthazar. We only know one thing for sure, that they were wisemen from the east. The Bible doesn’t even specify a number. We also know what they did, they came and worshiped Jesus and they came to give him gifts of gold Frankincense and myrrh.

What about the dry time of the wisemen? Well, we know that they followed a star. They may have followed it for up to two years and they kept going. They believed that this star would lead them to the new born king of the Jews, but one night, the star disappeared.

Think about that for a moment. Possibly two years of your life doing one thing and knowing that where you are going is going to be wonderful and incredible, then one day it all falls apart; you don’t know what to do or where to turn. Your path is gone. Who or what you are following is gone and with it your dreams. Such is the desperation these men must have felt.

I think there comes times in our lives when our star seems to have disappeared. Our faith feels hollow and our dreams don’t matter. We wonder why we have done all that we did when it bore no fruit. We look to God for answers and even the heavens seem silent. We have all had times in our lives when the star disappears.

The question is what do we do when this happens? How do we handle it? Do we go back to our own way? Do we give up? Do we look for another star? Or do we hang on in faith through the pain and the storm of the loss to wait and see what God does?

I am not sure the wisemen kept faith with God in their situation. They went to Herod and asked where the messiah was to be born? And because of their question to Herod all the boys two years old and under in Bethlehem were killed. Had they kept silent and waited this would not have happened. We don’t know exactly how long it took, but we do know that the star reappeared and led them directly to where Jesus lay.

Yes today I am having a dry day. In some ways I cannot see my own star. But I think I will. From this moment forward, wait for my star to come back. I will wait with patience and faith so on Christmas Day I can worship with joy.

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Online Dating Photos: What NOT to Post!

December 21, 2012 8:46 am / Leave a Comment / Alicia Tamayo

Online dating can be frightening. You think you know someone based on a profile picture and a few weeks worth of charming, seemingly perfect conversation, but then you meet for your first date and suddenly, your whole world is turned upside down. Who’s this short, bald guy and what happened to the tall, attractive man with great hair you were suppose to be meeting? Okay, maybe it’s not the scariest situation you could run in to (yes, it could be worse!), but it’s certainly disappointing enough to make you quit the dating scene all together.

It’s not all about looks, but your profile photo is the first impression. It’s communicating who you are, so please, make it real and make it count! If you’re serious about finding a match, there’s no worse way to start off than with a misleading profile…or one that screams Crazy Cat Lady. eHarmony, one the top online dating sites, just released a slideshow of the worst profile photos to date, and here is what we’ve learned from their bad examples.

What NOT to post in your profile picture:

  1. No cats. You’re coming off as a crazy cat lady (or man!).
  2. No glamour shots. It screams fake.
  3. No forced sexuality. Trying too hard is a major turn off.
  4. No old photos. People want to know what you look like now, not what you looked like in your high school yearbook photo.
  5. No extreme close-ups. People automatically think you’re hiding something if you’re only showing off your face.
  6. No party face. You may not draw the right kind of guy if your profile picture screams drunk mess.
  7. No bling. Take off the expensive designer labeled sunglasses, earings, and other accessories that seem high-maintenance.
  8. No weenies. If you’re looking for a man to date, don’t make your profile picture a photo with you and another guy! Even if it is your brother.

For the rest of the list, and to see the actual photos, visit advice.eharmony.com!

Photos Courtesy eHarmony

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My Christmas Journey, December 19, 2012

December 19, 2012 11:20 am / Leave a Comment / Mike Roberto

Advent is truly a journey. It is a journey of our hearts and our souls to the babe that was born at Christmas time. Do any of you remember a time when you were in love? I mean those first wonderful months when you find yourself getting to know a new person. You asked all kinds of questions and you found yourself revealing information about yourself that you never thought you would tell another person. This should be what Advent is for us.

When you love another person you want to know everything. Though it may embarrass the person you love, you cannot wait to see their baby pictures, photos of how they grew up, and hear their parents stories about them as a young person.These are things you actually hunger for. This is the attitude we should have at Advent.

If we love Jesus we should want to know “everything”. The Gospels are certainly the story of Jesus, but they are also the way Jesus’ Bride, The Church, gets to know her husband. We should be hungry and excited when we revisit the birth ‘pictures” of Jesus in Bethlehem. This is the great secret of Advent to spend time to know, really know Jesus.

There are thousands of ways to do this. Read The Gospels. Take time and read about Jesus great ancestor’s in The Old Testament. Pray often. Talk to Jesus about everything and if there are things you don’t know about him, ask him. He has ways of revealing himself to us that we will least expect. As we do this the expectancy of Christmas will grow in our hearts and we will look forward to it as we look forward to celebrating a birthday with a friend or family member. If we know Jesus we will want to do the preparations for Christmas, because they are the preparations for a deeply loved person in your life. You will prepare for Christmas with the same attitude you prepare a birthday celebration for your best friend, your spouse or your children and you will find yourself doing little things just the way you know he would want them done.

Christmas is a birthday party. So search for the right gift. Prepare wonderful food. Invite friends and family to your home and celebrate. Play games, eat cake, and sing together. Tell stories about how knowing Jesus has changed you and how he has affected your life. Do this in the same way you would tell stories about a friend you have known for a long time.

Celebrate Jesus this Christmas. Do it with your whole heart and your spirits and your whole body. Celebrate with love and laughter. Turn Christmas into a gift for a much loved friend, instead of a list of things you feel you have to do because it is what ‘s expected. As you celebrate Christmas in this way, what was once a burden becomes a joy.

I would also recommend two books to you. The First, YESTERDAY TODAY AND FOREVER, and the second, WHEN KING WAS CARPENTER. Both of these books were written by Maria Von Trapp and you can find them on Amazon or better yet go to your local Christian retailer and have them ordered for you. These books are a wonderful way to begin to know Jesus as friend.

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My Christmas Journey December 16, 2012

December 16, 2012 2:02 pm / Leave a Comment / Mike Roberto

The Third Sunday of Advent

The traditional scripture for the third Sunday of Advent is John 1:19-28. In this story John the Baptist is approached by the Jewish leaders and asked to identify himself. John quickly tells them he is not the Christ, but a herald for the Christ. One is coming “whose sandals I (John) am not worthy to untie.” He tells them.

Two questions today. The first is, Are we heralds for Jesus? Do we tell people not only that he is coming back and is indeed already here, That He is a part of who we are. In fact that he made us who we are? This is one of the jobs of Christmas, to tell people that Jesus came and is coming back. We tell people that we know that he came and we warn them that he is coming back and each I of us must be ready for that return.

Not all of us have the gift of speech, but we each have the gift of living our lives in a way that will draw others to Jesus. St Francis said, and I paraphrase, “Preach always, use words as little as possible.” Words are cheap. People throw words around all the time and half the time people don’t mean what they say. Or if we mean it, we find ourselves forgetting what we have said. When was the last time that you told someone you would pray for them and then didn’t actually do so? This happens to all of us. Live with purpose and live with Christ in your hearts. Go out and do things that will tell people that you are a herald for the great king who is coming.

The other question is how well do we think of ourselves. John said that he was unworthy to untie Jesus’ sandal. How do we feel about ourselves in relationship to Jesus. Jesus loves us and wants us to come to him freely, but he is also God and deserves our reverence and respect. This may look different for different people. It’s the attitude of the heart that counts not the show on the outside. Do you love God and respect him for who he is? If this is your heart attitude you are in a good place.

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My Christmas Journey, December 14, 2012

December 14, 2012 11:31 am / Leave a Comment / Mike Roberto

In the Christmas episode of Batman The Animated Series, done back in the 1990s, Dick Grayson asks Bruce Wayne why he had never seen It’s A Wonderful Life? Bruce’s reply was simply, “I could never get over the title.” Bruce’s reaction to the Frank Capra film is not unlike my own, but for different reasons. After all Bruce had watched his parents gunned down and as he became The Batman, was witness to all kinds of terrible crimes. Personally my issue was simple I didn’t like Jimmy Stewart all that much. By the time I first saw him in the 1960s he was kind of a parody of himself and I just wasn’t impressed. It took Marlo Thomas to change my mind.

Marlo decided to take It’s A Wonderful Life and reverse most of the rolls. The part of George was taken over by Marlo and she was the one That Mr. Potter steals the money from. Marlo was very active in the women’s rights movement and this was done to help get her point across. She changed the title from It’s a Wonderful Life to, It Happened One Christmas. This I saw and this I loved.

The story of an every man, George Bailey, who gives up his life’s dreams very slowly to help his neighbors and his friends and his family and then is left with a problem of his own that he cannot solve on a Christmas Eve, is a story that many people can relate too. George has helped so many people. He thinks he has lost eight thousand dollars of his company’s money, when in truth, Mr. Potter, who owns a rival company has stolen the cash in order to ruin George. Feeling alone and forsaken, George heads to a bridge to kill himself. He is stopped by an angel named Clarence who in order to show George that he doesn’t understand the purpose of his life, shows George what the world would be like if George had never been born.

No George meant that many lives would be ruined. Mr. Potter would run the town and his friends and family would be living in misery. Clarence shows George that he has made a difference even if he cannot see it himself. He shows George that from an eternal perspective George’s Life has great meaning.

Last night while thinking about It’s A Wonderful Life,” I decided to take out a page from Clarence’s book I decided to look at my own past and see if the same held true for me. I wanted to know if the stuff I had gone through had any meaning. I wanted to know If my life could be seen as wonderful?

And do you know what? I am not going to tell you. Telling about my own life seems to me to be a little self-serving, and so that is not where I am going. I am issuing you a challenge however. How do you see your own life? Do you feel despair? Is the upcoming Christmas Season something that is giving you pain instead of joy? Then I challenge you, be honest with yourself, and ask yourself what would the world be like if I wasn’t here?

There are rules here. You have to maintain integrity and you cannot pass off good things as too little to matter, and or bad things as though they were the only things that matter. You have to keep perspective on everything. If you are suffering from a depression don’t do this alone, do it with someone else as your depression will color your thoughts the wrong way. In fact if you are suffering from depression severely don’t do this at all but go and seek professional help.

I believe that if we play Clarence for ourselves, if we look back and see what life would be like for many people if we had never been born, we can see that that we have a greater purpose than we give ourselves credit for. We will see the hand of God in our lives and we will see, that indeed, It’s A Wonderful Life!

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My Christmas Journey, December 13, 2012

December 13, 2012 12:39 pm / Leave a Comment / Mike Roberto

This blog was started with the idea of helping each of us find what Christmas really is. In writing this blog for the two weeks my faith has been reignited and the joy of the season, it’s beauty and it’s peace has walked with me every step of the way. I have begun to feel about Christmas the way I used to feel when I was much younger this blog has been gift.

What Christmas movies can you name off the top of your head or TV specials. Let’s see what I have: A Charlie Brown Christmas, A Christmas Carol, Scrooge, White Christmas, Christmas in Connecticut, Rudolph The Red Nosed Reindeer, How The Grinch Stole Christmas, Miracle On 34th Street, Santa Claus Conquers The Martians, The Littlest Angel, The Homecoming, The Gathering, The Christmas Box, I could go on but I think you get the point.

I have been pretty serious about Christmas, as Christmas is a serious subject. Afetr all the central them is that God sent his to Earth in the form of Jesus, Jesus was and is completely human and completely God, another mystery that we will never solve, and it is by Jesus life, His death on the cross and his resurrection from the dead that restores us to a relationship with God and redeems us from our sinful nature, this is the true work of Christmas.

But Christmas is also fun. We truly do not know when Jesus was born. We have an approximate time period as we know who ruled when in the area of Judea and Rome and Luke gives those details but not exact dates. Jesus could have been born in December or any other month of the year, but again there is no record of His birth. So why December the 25th?

History tells us that there was huge Pagan Festival that honored the God Saturn during this time of year. Much of our great traditions of Christmas come from this festival, gift giving amongst others. People of the time of the early Church wanted to be Christians, but they liked this festival too, so the church leaders of the time decided to redeem the festival and turn it into a Christian celebration and so Christmas or The Birth of Jesus came into being. Some people seem to want to criticize the church fathers of the time for making this decision, but in some ways December The 25th is a lot like us. We were separated from God, Jesus steps in a saved us. The Pagan festival was also separated from God, but the church leaders came in and gave it a purpose and new meaning. Personally I think this a wonderful thing and fantastic in its own way. We are born with the character of God and the desire to create. The early church fathers simple did the same as God did, for people, to save the day.

So Christmas though serious in its meaning is also meant to be fun. A time to tell stories, get together with family and friends and to give gifts. It’s meant to amaze us and to teach us. Christmas is meant to give us joy. The films above are a portion of the fun and joy and happiness that is Christmas. In future blogs I will take a look at some of these stories that we love so much and try to determine why we look forward to them every year.

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